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Wednesday, December 30, 2015

If your cup of learning is full, all worthy input will overflow and hence it will be a national waste of man-hours & energy...

Nothing really can be taught , till we learn by being involved and feel motivated to learn...it all depends on our mind-set and attitudes...

I must learn the art of saying 'no', when I really want to say that....a personal area that can make our lives hell....

Through relaxation and silence , we become more and more creative, if we apply our minds in specific field....

Believing in ourselves and having the tenacity and determination will make us achieve excellence in a field...

As we are not meant for doing all kinds of jobs/tasks, we should specialized in some specific domains for personal and professional excellence...

Once doing good things becomes a habit for someone, excellence will certainly evolve slowly....

If I am really serious about a job and perform it with three revisions, I can deliver excellent output...I require enough patience to revise minimum thrice for a job done...

A cheerful and smiling face cure most of the social relationships related ills....

Results and outcome based daily living with special mix of entertainment & relaxation is an art......over-seriousness about life's actions leads to high BP & diabetes

One's inner satisfaction and happiness can hardly be affected by externals in the world, if we could train up our minds to be be so...

Fruits and vegetables are now the basic diet I try to take most of the times and hence feel light & better

A man is known by the company he keeps...so to network with the right,relevant and qualified people for professional growth & development...

Time-money-energy-enthusiasm-confidence management in my life is the biggest challenge in my present life...

Tuesday, December 29, 2015

We are only playthings at the hand of GOD, we are basically forgetful...

If we acquire the courage to speak from the heart by using brain too, the whole communication process will have a winning flavor in its inherent substance.......

If we can plan a job properly in written and edited form by repeated review and analysis, there will be highest chance of winning in the venture....

Entertaining others by proper use of sense of humor is also a great art...not a matter of joke

Many of our physical diseases are caused by mental processes and negative emotions....Healthy mind will promote a healthy body too...

I do not want to prove anything about myself to others, but I still need to prove my talents to myself only...

I derive a lot of pleasure from helping others in genuine need...

While typing on the key-board of my Personal computer, I feel as if I am playing a musical instrument like Harmonium...

When my typing efficiency goes down, I realize that there is some problem with my mental concentration..I take pause and restart the job with a changed style and method....

Most of the job stress are caused by adopting wrong work-style & lack of communication skills & transparent leadership...

More independent we become in our actions, the better we feel by reducing interpersonal conflicts and stress

Once we reach a certain level of personal excellence, we shall be have increasing number of critics and enemies in in our surroundings...we should hence maintain a low profile

Courage,faith, silence and real patience are the greatest assets in the storms of life

Real talents and geniuses do not need to set up big laboratories for reserches...they need freedom, and food, and nurturing....

I am sometimes really mesmerized by the singing and musical talents among the street singers in India

No advertising is bigger than word of mouth of people with integrity and honesty

Building reputation and goodwill is long journey, but it can fall apart within seconds...

I feel bad for people who are in the habit of telling lies and criticizing others destructively...

In all our actions, there is golden Hands of the Almighty....

If we learn to be contented by realizing Truths of living, we really get elevated to be the gems in the society...

Practice of Self-realization techniques can not be enforced upon anybody, as it is a matter of heart and controlled mind...

Medical profession is getting dirty day by day for the common people....

Cost control and poor shape of my personal finance taught me great lessons for life...

Lifestyle Modification is the only way out in ensuring good health and fitness for me...

Monday, December 28, 2015

Living one day at a time is a great technology in the art of living and self-management...

Work , Entertainment , Fitness & Relaxation in a balanced mix is what the art of living means to anybody, but the balancing act is the most difficult of all jobs

When our words,works and intentions converge, all our miseries will slowly vanish...

Experience, Exposure ,Energy, Enthusiasm,Personal excellence matter in seeking our unique identity in society and the world at large

One good book has the ability to make big changes in ourselves...

Truth exists irrespective of the relative perception & perceptual distortion of the individual personality

When inspiration & perspiration are blended, great things are not very far away

Keeping the faith in ourselves that we can do big things, if we try again and again keep us busy in creative pursuits and hence our inner talents get unfolded slowly but steadily

Each day should begin newer thoughts and changes in behaviours, attitudes & work-style

Primarily thinking is the man, like Style is the man...changes in thinking chages the man & consequential delivery of actions

Wednesday, December 23, 2015

At the end of the tunnel, there is light...we should not lose hope ...

Hope, faith, integrity and inspiration coupled with perspiration will make us lively and charming......

We shall enrich ourselves in many ways, if we can see some positive aspects in everybody else...something good lies in almost every human being...

A health mind and thought-process will , most of the cases, keep us healthier..negative emotions produce detrimental effects on physical health parameters...

Faith and will-power applications are our inner healers...external help is a must in emergencies & extraordinary situations....

In most of our common and chronic ailments, we need to apply our will-force first and a strong faith in getting cured natural remedies, except in abnormal cases of illnesses

Natural remedies and Lifestyle changes are the real building blocks of good health: medical treatments have made the lives of common men hell by robbing their hard-earned money...

Our mental faculties are gradually improved by exercise...my grand-father used to say in my childhood...I could hardly that at that time...

We should never stop learning and growing....the biggest lesson for self-growth and prosperity....

People should never come to quick conclusions about any matter or event or a personality, as such a bad habit destroys the finest human thinking & emotions

Real scholarship develops from self-study and self-learning and experience of applying the same in real life situations...

The art of communication skills lies in hitting the centre of gravity of the most relevant context, with rigorous home work at the backdrop

Thought of the day: Through continuous process of learning and re-learning , we are bound to develop ourselves....

If I am a good worker, I shall become a good leader too, in course of time...

My typing speed on the computer keyboard reflects the level of my mental concentration....

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Changing the mind-set and attitudes will go a long way in improving things in my life...to focus on my dreams from now

Patience-Persistence-Perspiration(3Ps) are the best combination of excelling in my teaching profession...a self-reminder

By worshippng Satyam-Shivam-Sundaram, we can touch the hearts of millions and Blessings of the Almighty....

To speak effectively before an audience, we must be able to assess the Centre of Gravity(CG) of the audience moods, attitudes & motivation first and then re-design the speech accordingly

Some popular teachers are responsible for ethical degradation among our young students.. I must say..We need more transparency in system....and less of commercialization

I nurture least desire in be in limelight for any reason, as I do not enjoy public attention....But I still enjoy doing good to people in my limited capacity...

Monday, December 21, 2015

Take opinions from many persons, but decide on the basis of your innermost voice of conscience only....a Management Principle

Theorization & intellectualism in every ordinary events & things of life produces a lot of intellectual garbage.....let's stop it by using common sense

Thinking and then acting meaningfully & fruitfully , in our own styles, are my main duties...

Self-realization is achieved through years of self-research, experiences in the field of human,social, economic & political thinking, actions and hard-core experiences

Greater the will-force, greater the heights of our achievements.....

Social networking is a great nuisance too, for people who love peace, not for the social activists & social workers...

Overeating & eating fast-food are two pillars of ill-health & suffering....we must avoid after a certain age...

I always try to avoid any debate on my faiths, beliefs and convictions...this attitudes give me a lot of peace and happiness...

A true and genuine teacher will have completely different outlook & attitudes towards life...in thoughts, actions, speech and behaviours...

There is a big difference between over-confidence and self-confidence, if we think in terms of attitudes and philosophy of rightful actions...

Honesty pays in the long run, we should not expect quick results of our sincere, honest and creative actions

A hardy constitution of our body will empower us in fighting obstacles in life..

Everyday is a new day, Let's start our days with fresh ideas and newer outlook towards life in general...

Over-seriousness and obsession with desires will surely lead to diabetes and high blood pressure...

Harmony in the use of brain and heart will result into better outcomes in practical life

Most of our chronic illnesses are originated from wrong lifestyle behaviours and habits..,...

High Quality(HQ) works today will ensure a better tomorrow...

I am trying my best to apply Light-food & More Water(LFMW) principles in my life and slowly enjoying the positive results

Content & containers are to be viewed and analysed separately to come to plausible conclusions...

I am struggling to remain Positive-Pleasant-Cheerful(PPC) for a long time, really a difficult task in an atmosphere of corruption & dishonesty...all around..

In this age, it is really a big challenge to get things done by speaking the truths only...

Worry and fear dissipates a lot of our vital energy, though most of such negative emotions are baseless, fictitious and unfounded....

'Ignoring & filtering' is the art of keeping mental worries and anxiety away....We need to use our brains in speciality domains only...

Sunday, December 20, 2015

Ambitious plans only can make work harder.....

Vision-mission-objectives(VMO) must be crystal clear in one's life to achieve higher levels of success: I failed, as I hardly had any ambition...

Our own personality- projection to the outer world & our perception of the same should not differ widely for attaining inner peace

Money is never given free,it has to earned.....money is hence the most critical aspect of social living....we should therefore learn the secrets...

University degrees always do not reveal the true qualities in terms of attitudes, knowledge & social contribution.....

We need to work for our survival as well as for keeping our emotional balance in life...

Book by Herbert Harris of Laws of success has influenced me greatly and I am trying to apply some of these laws in my life: an inspiring book indeed

Saturday, December 19, 2015

Beautiful music and songs are great healers of diseased minds and bodies

My Guruji is at the helm of my life-boat in the stormy sea of living a life

Life is a music, we rarely realize in time: we are mostly immersed in maya or illusion

Perpetual search for material pleasure & gratification is basically infinite stupidity of the human minds...

Leadership should be based genuine mutual-respect only: fear destroys creative faculty of the team members

Take time to relax....continuous hard work will ruin both health and mind......

Invincible thinking coupled with strong habits will ensure our progress and development.....

Business development require more of a brain than money and resources...

Not to react and respond to the personal opinions and comments of others: Filtering out the rubbish is essential for better living & enjoying life

Life's mission is a marathon, not a 100 metre race: slowing down help us to relax and create

Happiness should reside in our inner minds,not in how others perceive from their own set reference frame for we hardly are responsible

We should firmly stick to Force dot Displacement principle of performing our duties and jobs: wasteful thinking & rubbish talks must be avoided...

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Performance is more important than pedigree....



  • Producing tangible outputs at the end of the day really matter
  • Tall talkers hardly contribute anything to a system
  • An efficient and competent professional does not have to work hard, he only works smart
  • Pedigree sometimes is a barrier to growth, as attitudes sometimes are very poor
  • Performance requires clear understanding of the subject matter & an ability to summarize and converging thinking
  • A performer hardly uses any excuse to shirk his or her duties
  • To a performer, time-management skills really matter

Money-and-position-power lovers can never be real friends in life....it is always safer to behave tactfully with them all....


  • Till we are able to control and subdue our greed for these elements, we shall lead a balanced and happy life
  • Real friendship develops due to matching of thinking and attitudinal similarity
  • Your honesty is your real friend
  • Disinterestedness and detachment are our real friends 
  • Selection of friends matter in ensuring growth and progress in our lives
  • Dishonest companions will degrade us in the long run
  • We shall be happy till we keep our expectations to be very low

Changing personality traits might surprise many people on a temporary basis, it will be matter of habit later on....

The movie Jolly LLB shows the personal excellence which an ordinary man reach: Perseverance and hard work were the turning points here

I enjoy the classic art of AMIT-ji's movie, Sharabi, whenever I find opportunity to watch it....

Everybody is not blessed with an innocent and beautiful smile....it reveals our real character....

Networking with people of sub-standard intelligence will always pull you down

Managing time & money are the biggest challenges in my personal life......

Time-management is the art of doing right things at the right time in a more planned manner...ignore the extraneous words of others...

Alternative art of living: prayer to silence,taking vegetarian food, simple aerobic & yoga,home-gardening, ignoring material pursuits of extreme kinds, simple living in natural environment, realizing self & ignoring the mediocrity in others...

Fear is the only factor that causes biggest harm to our growth, development and prosperity.....

Our behaviours with a persons of lower status in society shows our real nature: pious or venomous ?

Doing a simple job shows how big actions will be executed...simple things really matter: it reflects our personal qualities & virtues

Leaders can not be created, they are basically born with an extraordinary minds: certain type of training can only sharpen some of their skills

Do not dance at the tune of everybody, you will surely lose your originality....a person with originality is a mediocre one....

If we firmly believe in our dreams and decisions, materialization is only a matter of time and energy we spent on them...

Our KSAs (Knowledge-skills-attitudes) are highly limited by our ability to think big....

Personality traits improvement is the key changing our jobs to new ones....a big challenge that can taken up for a big step forward

Through powerful words we can win the hearts of people..

Summarize,extract the gist and do the jobs that will take you nearer to your set dreams

Wednesday, December 16, 2015

• A technical job takes artistic form, if one achieves exceptional dexterity in that job

• Our so-called busyness is mostly show-offs and based upon intellectual garbage of many kinds

• Our so-called busyness is mostly show-offs and based upon intellectual garbage of many kinds

• Bookish knowledge has very limited applications in reality. We should try to develop common-sense first on a subject and seek advanced knowledge through books and mentors.

• If we are really honest and dutiful, we hardly need to oil others

• Negative thoughts hampers our free thinking , creativity and hence retards our growth and progress

• Embedding some fine thoughts at the onset of the day help us in being happy

• I am trying to listen to my inner voice, after a long time

• There is no alternative to personal transparency

Monday, December 14, 2015

Honesty only bring peace in mind, material prosperity has the chance of making us arrogant: simplicity and honesty are biggest assets

We should try to explore our inner talents and nurture it continuously.The job should not be out-sourced to any body else...

It is always better to be straight forward to ourselves and others: few misunderstandings will arise in our lives

We should listen to our inner voice of conscience in deciding our actions and strategy: wearing masks and pretensions are our own enemies

Charity begins at home....

Without real and strong faith and conviction about our abilities and talents, we can hardly progress and prosper in life

Our past mistakes are our great teachers who taught us many things are not taught in class-rooms in schools,colleges and universities

Courage-confidence and enthusiasm are our true friends in giving our best performance

Self-correction is a big step towards self-development, we should have such an attitude to do that practically

To improve ourselves continuously, we should seriously do the SWOT analysis of our own selves and take actions to correct ourselves

Wrong actions on our part is counter-productive and leads other people to do wrong with us

Our inner codes of morality, justice, fairness, freedom, ethics should form a framework of our real life actions

It takes a long time to build relations of trust, respect, faith, fairness, integrity and confidence

Managing is an elevated science and an art too, that requires to take note of infinite human complexity

The quality in leading a better life lies in keeping patience and tolerance with human dignity.....

Saturday, December 12, 2015

Life , to me , is a miracle...as my exposure to science and technology is very limited...

Our focus should be on our personal and professional excellence so that long term benefits to the organization are ensured

We should not reveal the status of our creative activities till the whole process is complete...artificial obstacles may arise...

Mental power depends to a great extent on physical strength.....hence we should try to strong and hardy

Cool-calm-courageous-confident(C1-C4) types of individuals only can reach the pinnacle of success

Eat-play-love-laugh with 'live and let live' summarises the art of living for the common people

'Remembering-understanding-analysing-applying' brings true intuition in our lives

Team,Network-Trust & Relationships are the building blocks of leadership

Friday, December 11, 2015

Truth lies in the inner realities of the self, not in its interaction with the external world...perception of the great Yogi's

It is really a bad habit that we encroach upon specialization & domain responsibilities of others

Improving Self-image needs a lot of home work and hard work...let's try try it from today

We should ,as far as possible, be apolitical in our comments, if we are not in the active politics...a caution for all of us...

Hard work is necessary for keeping mind stress-free

Lust has nothing to do with Love and one must control lust to be happier...

Greed is the single-most emotion that is at the root of social disharmony and unrest...

Conventional education system is becoming diluted in today's socio-political circumstances, values and ethics are also completely neglected...

Fast food should be avoided as far as possible....these are big dangers to health and well-being...

Practice of meditation is the foundation for achieving mental serenity and peace...

Application of physical force may be considered as an exceptional case, human beings tend to brutal in nature...exceptional case only

Unfolding of the inner beauties and inner qualities & virtues is the real purpose of material life....

Inner beauty will somehow be reflected in our deeds.....

Being simple and down-to-earth holds the secrets of art of living

Living with gifts of Nature in real life has no alternative in ensuring health-wealth-wisdom in our lives

Fearlessness coupled with intelligence & honesty will be able to bear fruits in professional excellence...

Producing business goodwill is a long process involving quality services based on societal ethics

Team cohesiveness requires a lot of home-work and hard-work on the part of a Leader-Manager

Team building is the toughest challenge in a manager's work life

Thursday, December 10, 2015

A vacillating mind is the real source of most of our ills in living a life....

Personality is the sum total of our real-life visible actions, thoughts, ideas and emotions.....

Truth can not be kept wrapped up by the fabrics of falsehood...

Life is the quality of work we do continually, life is basically worship of work, in the name of God who created the world and the Universes

Quality of our actions depends greatly on our work-place environment and culture...

Dogs bark, but the caravan goes on.....

Branding is also for a teacher..if Teacher is at his best in delivering the contents in innovative ways and effectively too...

I love books on various of subjects....My first love is the feeling that I am a book-worm.....Books are our best friends.,..I feel

Success is continuous journey...each one should generate greater humility in our hearts....delete artificial vanity from inner minds...

Believe in your decision....said JRD Tata-ji: wonderful visionary & industrialist

Procrastination is the obstacle for taking up meaningful actions at the right time in our lives.....

Fear is the root of our self-destruction, and degradation....a very difficult subject to understand....

At Any time in our lives, we can design and start our 'set-back to come-back' actions...let's start today

From our failures, fire should be ignited in our minds through in-depth learning...

In obstacles, we should seek newer ideas and opportunities...

One should not do a job at the mercy of some people...it needs a lot of courage to maintain professionalism with integrity....

Free advice, suggestions, grooming will make you a cashless genius in the long run...

For any interpersonal networking , the root lies in the building of trust and mutual respect...

Knowledge-Skills-Attitudes-Courage-Confidence(KSACC) can miracles in our personal & professional life...over-politeness ruins our real image

If I can accumulate a little of more courage and confidence, things on professional front might improve drastically..I am already too late...

Wednesday, December 9, 2015

Being independent is an art...

I love acting of Amit-ji and Nana Patekar-ji: real excellence in one's domain

God tracks all our actions and thoughts, no escape....God attracts us all towards Him....

Being able to sacrifice is a lofty emotional feeling & sense of satisfaction......spirit of renunciation

Every wicked action is followed by adverse reactions on body and mind....a self-reminder

Every action and inaction has its consequential effects in life...serving God through is a much better an idea...

Living like a King mentally without hurting anyone mentally....Jai Ho brothers and sisters

Live-Love-Laugh is a very good principle of living...we should sincerely try it in our own lives

Courage , confidence and honesty should lie within our inner minds, and only actions should be visible by a selected few...

It takes a long time to create something genuinely beneficial to human well-being

Over-spending is my personal blunder that acted against my family interests..I now understand

Unconditional surrender to God will lead to realization of Truth

My own special strength is that I can make fun of myself....not so serious about material life & achievements

It is a fact that we rarely understand each other, as we are basically very selfish and self-centred in our thoughts and actions...we rarely search for the hidden treasures

There should no scope for frustration & demoralization of the inner self...we should think deeply and differently to come out of the trap...

Self-improvement and self-development are our true friends....a continuous enlightenment of the self is a great source of inspiration to the self...

Everybody here is not in the same state of mind and hence our expectations from others should be kept minimum...

Birds of a feature flock together...so let us be aware of our associations and companions....let's be lonely sometimes...

For one good thing done, there will be a lot of people to prove the whole thing wrong...a lacunae in contemporary society...

Creations like giving birth to a child, it is associated with a lot of pain and agony...we must endure the pain to feel happiness...

Others may say many things bitter, but the challenge lies in ignoring them progress in positive direction only..

Constant devotion to our own ideas and ideals will lead us to meaningful actions...

Tuesday, December 8, 2015

We should discriminate discretely, before giving advice to others...better not to give at all...

Perspiration is the primary requirement for correcting past mistakes, where inspiration should act at the background...

To ignite the fire within, we only need inspiration coupled with perspiration.....

We should learn from our own mistakes as well as that of others...

We need to update ourselves latest issues in our field of activity....will empower us to achieve higher levels of success...

Management is a branch of Technology in which knowledge of Psychology & Organizational Behaviour is applied....

Giving best in anything we do is the finest management principle and practice at the personal level...

Igniting my own mind systematically for better actions is the top-most priority...show must go on...

Personal dependence on others will degrade our independent thoughts and actions....

Darwin's survival of the fittest has real-life significance in practical and professional life...let's be fit in many dimensions

Positive & Possibility Thinking (PPT) will open up newer avenues of living ...keeping various options open for solving life's problems

There can not a quick and fast answer to problems of greater complexity and magnitude...

Uncontrolled and unlimited desires ruin us slowly but steadily.....starting a new life newer attitudes..

Low profile behaviour is our strength in disguise...being down to earth...

Cost control and reduction in daily living will reduce our mental burden, surely

Once a teacher, Always a teacher...basic habits hardly change

Living with least of needs and desires will pave the path towards happiness and peace...let others have different opinions

Belief in ourselves will take us forwards in self-development and self-progress

Money-People-Muscle-Youth powers of one's life are the transitory phases of life.....super-consciousness lies within to realize

Practitioner of silence and patience are the true assets of any society....

Each of our failures are our best teachers...

Struggles and hardships are the ingredients of long-term success....

Work inputs come first, before success arrives....

When going gets tougher, we need to be tougher in our inner domain of minds....

Getting things done through one's own self is the biggest challenge to achieving excellence , success and prosperity

We need to acquire a different mindset and passion to be materially success

Love for nature is a great pastime for anybody...

Falling into the trap of brands, marketing campaigns can make life hell, if we are common and ordinary people

Quotes from great men and women are big sources of inspiration in our daily lives....

Listen,Listen and Listen, then talk the essentials in strong points

Our performance in driving a car is indicative of many of inner qualities of patience, dexterity, intuition...

It takes a lot of time and energy to achieve great goals of life

Pursuing passion with devotion will lead to greater achievements in life

Ordinary people can do extraordinary thing only the path of Punctuality-Sincerity-Dedication(PSD)...

People will say many a bitter thing, one must ignore and move forward with steadfast ideas and ideals

Discipline is the biggest challenge in one's life

Keeping fit needs a lot of bitter hard work...

Self-management is most important for personal growth....management starts with the self only

A few people only see big dreams for themselves

Looking forwarding and moving forward slowly but steadily is what life is...

For leading we hardly need money, we need resources of our hearts and genuine sense of purpose....

We are the children of God..we should always remember to be happy

Sunday, December 6, 2015

APJ Sir is one of the greatest teachers the world has ever produced: a True Karma-yogi

Bias, partiality, prejudices and grudge destroy the power of leadership and administrative management for any individual....

A Smiling face speaks out millions of words.....a cheerful smile creates a positive environment around us

Daily manual work and gardening-type hobbies will reduce our mental stress leading to peace of mind

Over-dependence on technology and automation makes us intellectual fools: manual work should be made compulsory for everyone...

My spiritual master possessed powers of miracles, inexplicable in the domain of science and technology

My struggle for existence and other true stories

Nothing can be taught, unless the learner has the right kind of urge for learning.....

Ordinary people can attain extraordinary heights of achievements through passionate hard in a domain of activity

Suffering from any kind of depression originates from self-doubt and lack of self-belief

We should be able to break the shell of shyness, nervousness, and self-doubt through continuous self-training, and boosting up self-confidence ...

Self-worth perception is the key to excellence in any field....

Our progress and prosperity are limited by our thoughts and attitudes....

Jealousy is the single-most factor that can destroy one's intelligence and hence become self-degrading and self-destructive

If we believe in our ideas and ideals, newer paths of achievements will open up before us....

We should never stop learning, as learning keeps us younger in many ways

If we can think differently, we shall find ocean of opportunities for engaging in creative activities....

Everyday is a new day in which we can seek new opportunities and nurture newer lessons from the open book of life

Our ageing process itself is a great tutor in our personal lives....no book or teacher can ever teach such things

We are not the real doers, God forces us to do things like breathing process is an automatic process....

Creativity and leadership are independent of monetary factors of one's life

Giving our best in anything we do is the ultimate art of winning in lives

Follower-ship is an automatic process for a good leader...it hardly requires any advertisement

Happiness is independent of externals of the world, as our innermost state of minds depends on our honesty and integrity only

Faith in our unique abilities combined with hard work will bring success and prosperity

Respect for basic human dignity is the building block for being a good leader...

We should compare ourselves with our own changing selves, instead of comparing with others, as we all are unique...

To excel and achieve higher levels of success, we need to be focussed on our unique passions only...

Managing is an elevated art, beyond technical skills & bookish knowledge

Monday, November 30, 2015

How to do well in competitive examinations


  1. read the questions three times in quick succession
  2. understand the core ideas required to solve the problems
  3. never be sequential in answering questions
  4. select the problems at the very beginning to answer
  5. focus on the fundamentals of the subjects repeatedly for a long time to assimilate the core concepts & problem-solving skills
  6. use combination of good text-books and guide books & question bank
  7. be master of the majority of the topics
  8. there is no short-cut to doing excellent in any field
  9. revise your subjects mentally many many times before the examinations

Silence is a great booster of inner creativity and meaningful contribution to the cause of Humanity

Graphs-Diagrams-Mathematics & Clarity of concepts-ideas-ideals are the core issues in achieving a better living

Energy-Enthusiasm-Eye-contacts(E3)-soft & sweet(S2)-Loudness(L1) & Clarity(C1) …greatest secrets of communication skills with Diaphragmatic speaking

Mix of Self-confidence & Silence can be used as a tonic for effective Public Speaking

We should learn the art of relaxing for a better life as human being

We should not waste food, energy and water….

Life’s situations might change for worse experiences, but we should inculcate toughness in body and mind to fight back and win…

Even under difficult circumstances, we should try to retain our external cool and sweetness…

To deliver high quality goods and services, we must do our home-work diligently

The greatest qualities in any being are ‘contentment’ and ‘patience’..Maa Saradamoni

We derive a lot of satisfaction by being ‘ourselves’ in style and actions

2. All creative actions and works of art are created in silent loneliness only. We only need to have enough patience to produce results

We should not utter foul words against anybody, and hence we should practice anger management

Withstanding criticism and fighting the battle of dirty politics is an art

To me, Man is not the architect of his fate....learnt from practical experiences and spiritual feelings of life

We should not expect gratitude from others whom we helped once, better to help selflessly whenever we can and then forget

We should save money for rainy days ahead....I learnt the hard lesson from my bitter experiences in the past

Honesty is the foundation of a happier living ...

Through continuous Personality development, we can remain more dynamic and younger in life....

Absorbing good qualities in others is itself is great teacher in life

Creativity is a matter of habit in pursuing knowledge , it has no boundary...

Without self-confidence, we shall be defeated in all games of life...

Self-doubt is at the root poor performance in life

We must have clear self-worth perception to be effective in profession as well as in family life

Knowledge is the biggest factor that shapes up our attitudes towards life in general

Ignoring things I can not change at all....and focussing on things I can do better...

Sense of humour is a great boon to practical life, as it relieves a lot of our daily stress and strain

One should be child at heart, at times to enjoy real pleasures of life

Walk the Talk method is the essence of setting up leadership examples

Sunday, November 29, 2015

Customer care systems in Educational Administration!

Customer Care & Management is the ultimate skill for any business development

Math-Technical- Soft skills are the foundation for an effective management of professional jobs

Possibility Thinking is an art that can not be ignored by an intelligent managers

Tenacity is the key-word in getting things done

“Being well-behaved” is a milestone in management of people

Analytical Skills in Organization Behavior is a key to managing people at work-place

Single-minded Devotion(SMD) is the foundation of all kinds of creative works

Psycho-optical illusion: basis of hard core material living

Plantation as a hobby, a token of love for mother Nature

Monday, November 23, 2015

Tough time never lasts, but Tough people do...a very good & inspiring book I read long back

A smiling face cures majority of troubles in interpersonal relationships

Some of the finest teachers of my life had been in my high school days only

Chamchas are more harmful than the enemies & critics

The art of giving enriches our lives: special sacrifice for others cleanses our minds

We should special abilities to withstand criticism: we should have enough practice

Regularity in taking physical exercise only can make us 'feel good'....

We need to be child at some part of the daily life, to enjoy beauties of life and existence

We need to be ourselves at all practical situations, as true creativity blossoms when we stop imitating

We need to enjoy loneliness to carry out scholarly & also to realize the true self

Study of Literature is an essential component for evolving as a responsible human being, also as a good citizen

Scholar works are a must for kinds of teachers

Friday, November 20, 2015

Practice only can make man perfect...no other option to excel in a field of activity or art

Knowledge development is a slow process requires a lot of hard work and deep thinking....

For achieving some milestones in life , we need to have toughness & determination at the back of the mind

"Success is never-ending and failure is never final" ..a great philosophy..,learnt from a book of this title

Visit by NBA,NAAC and Autonomy experts is really a training session for all teachers and staff of an institution

Maximization of happiness demand minimization of needs and desires

Knowledge is power, when it has practical orientation & concepts of real life applicability

Running after money destroys other aesthetic aspects of life, we should keep the drive at an optimal level

A well dressed person definitely enjoy greater self-confidence and more acceptability before others

Behind every good performance, there must be excellent homework

Concentration on our breathing process will reduce speed of our mental processes and hence improve peace of mind

Respect for others is a key to build better interpersonal relations

Continuous focus on our duties will reduce worries in life

Thursday, November 19, 2015

Self-perception,self-worth,self-identity,self-pride, self-role clarity...for attaining excellence

Talkativeness is a social nuisance & a social crime too....

Without deep understanding of Psychology, one can not be a good manager....

Self-correction is an everyday affair for the seeker of self-development

Depression is a great killer: We should have clarity of concepts and actions that would lead us to excellence, not to depression

We must be passionate and energized for whatever we do: miracles will happen one-day

We should set our practical goals first and then we should pursue the same with passion.....

Knowledge is not free, both for the learner and the learnt....free delivery of knowledge has little social value

Cool,Calm,Composed and relaxed presentation of the self is another big challenge for anybody

Marketing of one's own Curriculum Vitae is the biggest challenge for any any professional...

Relaxed,Natural, pause-based, brief ,common-sense-based, and gist-based interpersonal interactions for excellence

Dedicated work only can cure most of the ills of life

Outcome-based & Student-centric Teaching-Learning methodology

Amitji-Adnan-Lataji-Nachiketa-Ajay Devgan-Nana Patekar.....idols for excellence in art

Principles of Creative actions at personal level....for achieving personal excellence

People management for unfolding best qualities in a personnel

Conservation of energy at the personal level is the key word for longevity...

Courage & confidence are the best inner qualities

Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Debating is an art that only is meant for and practised by balanced and knowledgeable people, not meant for all

Without compassion, we can never be good leaders

Life is an open book and hence we can self-train ourselves on a continuous basis

Self-control,self-restraint and self-discipline are the true sources of great achievements in life

Selflessness in love truly elevates a person to higher spiritual level and contentment

Courage-concentration-confidence are the real assets in the art of living a life, I realize now

Music-Maths-Movie are my real foods that truly energize me

Brain-storming sessions for the self will certainly improve productivity

Nobel atom theory in the art of living

Attaining a state of continuous learning

Frustrating thoughts minimization by engagement in deep thoughts and actions:Karma-e-Brahma of Babaji Lokenath

Straight-forwardness ultimately wins over wickedness

Be brief & to the POINT...a philosophy of life

Not to find faults with others, but with the self>>>a great philosophy of self-development

Combination of spiral-straight-parabolic thinking in the art of management & administration

Mind Power development by yoga and meditation

Magnetic and metallic musical speaking & teaching originate from true honesty & sincere dedication only

Lessons from History

Middle-path-ism plus plus only for peace and harmony

ABCD of practical management

Consumerist hedonism is the source of all troubles

Advanced ESPM Theory as ESPMA control theory to attaining eternal peace

Elimination of the mental rubbish

Monday, November 16, 2015

Thought of the day: the art of living

Life=work+play+fun & humour+ high level of physical & mental fitness+ intellectual clarity+spiritual realization+keeping our mouth as far as possible+....

Thought of the day: attaining clarity of thoughts and actions

We need to read and absorb biographies of great men and women as far as possible......Inspiration from their lives will enlighten us and hence greater heights of purely genuine thoughts and actions...Slowly we shall be moving towards perfection in the arts of specialized field of activity....

Clarity of concepts will certainly bring clarity of actions that we take...

Clarity in actions will have the highest chance of attaining the desired outcomes.....

We should stall all types of actions,if we are confused about any concept/idea/action.. 

Sunday, November 15, 2015

Thought of the day:life is action,not contemplation

After long years of working experience, I have come to the conclusion :
Life is truly a bunch of actions,not contemplation...

If we can slowly develop finer values of the art of living, and follow ethical codes of conduct in work-place as well as in personal life,
we shall have the greatest chance of living with peace and happiness...

To earn, we need to work hard...

To remain peaceful, we should maintain ethical practices...

To be more successful, we should apply principles of management in our daily actions on any field...

To develop effective interpersonal relations and rapport, we need to patient & tolerant about the external world, and talk as less as possible...

When we speak, we should speak only effectively and clearly....

Thought of the day: spirituality in action

Anything connected to spiritual practice of one's life should be extremely personal and organized form of religious practices is beyond my comprehension. We should look inwards, inwards, inwards in order to rediscover ourselves at the personal level on a daily basis. This continuos process of self-reinvention will lead us to more clarity about human actions and civilization , and also about existence as a whole.
We should therefore analyse our 

  • Strengths
  • Weaknesses
  • Opportunities
  • Threats/Challenges

so that we can continuously evolve our inner qualities and virtues & create a sober, cool & calm, peace mental and spiritual environment in our own selves...

Thursday, November 12, 2015

Thought of the day: Anger Management

To be creative on a daily basis, we should concentrate on things that requires 'changes' and we should take genuine initiatives to bring about the changes slowly but steady.
Things do not change overnight. It takes a lot of planning and hard work to communicate and coordinate to make the possible changes visible.
The biggest change required is in the attitudes and thinking process and a genuine urge to do something that will be of benefits to the society....

As people dissipate a lot of time and energy in actions arising out of jealousy, and anger, the net outcome is really frustrating and violent. 
We should permanently delete these negative emotions from our minds, instead we should be able to transform negative energies into more and more creative activities...
Anger is a destructive emotion that kills intelligence and thereby invite violent and destructive activities....
We should convert anger into more fruitful and creative endeavours so that our inner virtues blossom and we could be able to serve the society in the interest of common people and youngsters....

Let us abandon anger and love peace in our personal capacities...

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Monday, November 9, 2015

Thought of the day: single-minded devotion


The best way to survive and win over the material pains of living a life, I could find some way-out ,such as the following:
·       Continuously striving to control mind-monkey as mind-tortoise; it requires daily practice by meditation-like exercises
·       Single-minded devotion (SMD) to one’s own activities  is the best cure for all ills of life
·       Mental concentration only help us realize the truth and philosophy of life
·       A self-realized soul will always keep away from the race for name,fame,wealth, money, pleasure, power etc., as a continual process of attaining higher levels spiritual enlightenment
·       it is best for health and soul to maintain silence as a matter of daily practice, By stopping talking rubbish all the time or most of the time
·       SMD on any action in an isolated condition could revolutionize the whole process, thus resulting into excellence in any field of human activities
·       It is always best to avoid ‘sights-and-sound’ pollution, by deliberate action on one’s own part
·       Principles of management are highly effective in our daily life and these should be learnt and practiced at personal level
·       SMD- based actions will surely produce enormous personal satisfaction at the end of the day
·       Personal honesty is the only prerequisite for getting fine results



Thought of the day: interpersonal skills

Interpersonal skills occupy a prominent place in leadership development process at the professional work-place. It is also the pivotal point for a happy family life. Personal happiness lies only in the internal frame of mind and the spirit of happiness is radiated to the surroundings and creates an ambiance of happiness and peace. Hence the core idea is to learn to be happy at the first place and then the environment will automatically tune to our inner happiness.
To make others happy, one must learn to be happy. The you make happy through applications of your interpersonal skills and relations of mutual trust will finally be your hard-core followers. Through guidance and counseling, we finally win the hearts of the other people and silently follows your principles, ideals, ideas and style.
The basic foundation of building interpersonal skills is:
·        Having a lot of patience and listening skills
·        Natural pleasantness in our unique style of behavior
·        Helping people in need without any consideration of self-interest & expectations
·        Keeping confidentiality & commitment intact
·        Keeping honesty & trust in practice
·        Dedication to our assigned responsibilities
·        Acting with highest level of integrity and transparency in all matters
·        Never to find faults with others, but to perfect our own actions
·        Continuous striving for building an atmosphere of mutual respect and trust


Thought of the day: practice of Management

Managerial  functions mostly involves the following roles:
1.    Planning
2.    Organizing
3.    Staffing
4.    Directing
5.    Leading
6.    Motivating
7.    Coordinating
8.    Communicating
9.    Controlling[POS-D-LMC3]
·       Really a challenging and an elevated role in any complex work environment…..
·       These nine skills-set must be developed through practical training and development in any individual with very educational background.
·       Especially, planning is the most challenging job, as persons with strong vision and farsightedness and a decent background in practical Mathematics & statistics can be good in planning & designing job
·       Leading & motivating are the biggest interpersonal roles a manager excels in
·       For being a excellent Manager-Leader one needs to planned-organized and systematic in approach towards any assignment/project



Thought of the day: right decisions & right amount of money in managing private & public lives


Right people should decide right things at the right time to bring about positive changes in both public and private lives. These decisions will always be connected to ‘money’ as the most vital component. Hence two major aspects of living a better life : Decision-making & Money
In matters of critical importance involving any kind of human suffering , fast and accurate decision-making is most important for finding an enduring solution for the problems. Fast and accurate decision-making is an art and hence it gets fine-tuned with practical experience in a field of activity.
With almost all kinds of managerial or personal decision-making, a vital factor is associated directly or indirectly. That factor is none other than Money. Money is a social oxygen without which one’s social existence become dangerously unsafe. Hence we must consider ‘money’ as the most critical factor for social survival and existence.
In life, money plays the most prominent role in dealing with external world and it critically influences human behaviors.
Managing money, time, relationships are the key elements that affect our living with greatest impact.
Hence we should plan and implement management concepts in these fields on a daily basis.


Thought of the day...: Being a teacher is itself a big challenge

Parameters of evaluation of a teacher are:

  • patience
  • dedicated
  • knowledge
  • application of knowledge in real-life
  • common sense
  • process of continuous learning
  • positive attitudes
  • selflessness
  • leadership by setting examples for the students
  • up-gradation of knowledge
  • innovation in content delivery and teaching methods
  • interactive and participatory teaching learning methods

Thought of the day

Observance of Silence and fasting on water for a fixed duration of time might improve our health and improvement of health parameters will ensure happiness on the personal front......

Overloading of the digestive system results into overall deterioration of health......

Practice of self-control, self-restraint and self-discipline are the biggest assets in one's personal life....

When our senses are directed towards the outside world, we slowly start losing mental peace, as sights and sound pollution are the root causes of stress in our lives.

Thought of the day: Love of Mathematics can improve mental concentration & peace

The most important things about finding the subject of Mathematics interesting are
·        We can not perform well without sufficient hands-on practice
·        Personal interest should be created for having enough passion to solve problems
·        Trail and error method is the source of inspiration for the Mathematics lovers
·        We should take enough time to think of various alternatives about solving a particular problem
·        Graphs are very important, and interesting too
·        Mathematics is the only subject that requires a great amount of mental concentration and patience
·        Mathematical problem solving can be used as a tool for improving mental concentration


Thought of the day: dimensions of professionalism


Skills required to become successful professionals are
·       Mathematical skills
·       Technical skills in specialized field of activities
·       Linguistic skills, especially in English
·       Soft-skills
·       Interpersonal skills & good manners
·       General knowledge on all subjects
·       Applied common sense for all situations


Thought of the day: selfless services can clease our body and mind

I feel pain when I see common people are passing through hard days of poverty and illness. Hence I wish to give selfless and free service to bring some positive changes in the lives of the suffering humanity. As it is not possible to do the same in a big way, I shall start giving my personal service through Ramakrishna Mission-type NGOs.
Real service in a completely selfless manner would possibly reduce my pain to some extent. There are dishonest, greedy and cruel people all around and a few people only realize the art of living. It is better to ignore  activities of the dishonest, greedy and cruel people, and contribute something in my own personal way.

Without selfless service, we shall never be able to cleanse our body and minds. Then only we shall be able to start our spiritual journey that would end at complete self-realization in the sands of time.

Sunday, November 8, 2015

Thought of the day: : Mathematics as an interesting and everlasting hobby

The most important things about finding the subject of Mathematics interesting are
  • ·        We can not perform well without sufficient hands-on practice
  • ·        Personal interest should be created for having enough passion to solve problems
  • ·        Trail and error method is the source of inspiration for the Mathematics lovers
  • ·        We should take enough time to think of various alternatives about solving a particular problem
  • ·        Graphs are very important, and interesting too
  • ·        Mathematics is the only subject that requires a great amount of mental concentration and patience
  • ·        Mathematical problem solving can be used as a tool for improving mental concentration



Thought of the day: attaining mental peace


The level of mental peace one enjoys depends on the lifestyle one follows. An undisturbed mind is achieved ,not through a hectic lifestyle, but through regular practice of yoga posture that ensures balanced secretion of hormones.
If we practice yoga on a regular basis, we can feel the internal changes that take place. Even the thought-patterns get completely changed and our inner attitudes and perception improve to a great extent.
An integrated and balanced personality develops through regularity of the practice of selected yoga postures.

We can take guidance of an expert yoga-trainer to learn the art and science of Yoga and Meditation that may act as a stimulus for us to make yoga a part and parcel of our lives. 

Thursday, November 5, 2015

Thought of the day

The biggest achievement in life is to

  • knowing the self
  • understanding one's core abilities and competencies
  • giving respect to others
  • having self-knowledge to relate to the world and existence
  • ignoring the non-essentials
  • seeking true happiness and peace in spiritual development
  • being able to withstand criticism

Formula for a happier life: Einstein's views

Life is work,play and keeping your mouth shut....really a marvelous piece of  philosophy of living

Thought of the day

To get mental peace , we should use a few  special technical commands  on a continuous basis, whenever we remember that we need peace, in our brain systems & thinking process:


  • refresh
  • relax
  • be cool
  • select
  • edit
  • delete
  • save
  • then 'refresh' again
  • then 'relax' again
  • pause
  • break
  • align
  • justify
  • format a 'drive'
  • connect
  • disconnect
  • isolate
  • forget
  • upgrade  etc. etc.
Human body and mind functioning are quite similar to the functions of a computer systems.

Wednesday, November 4, 2015

Thought of the day

One big thing about education is to be well-educated 
in
Mathematics
&
English
(i.e. one foreign language with its vast literature that encompasses all kinds of human emotions and philosophies of life)

for us
Indians
to be among the advanced nations of the world

Thought of the day

Managerial responsibilities consist of the following functions:


  • marketing ( promoting products and services that are of great social benefit and human welfare in general)
  • human talent management (recruiting and utilization of human talents and resources by motivating and leading)
  • Finance(managing money, keeping accounts, managing revenue, controlling cost, salary administration . preparing reports and auditing etc.)
  • Operations(production planning and maintaining productivity at the optimum level)
  • Systems(use of computer and software to store information and to retrieve the same at the right time)

Thought of the day

Interpersonal skills are the biggest needs of a good marketing manager & marketing is the key to business development in any sector.
Marketing requires a lot of rigorous training and development process for any individual....

  • speaking ability
  • body language
  • good manners

Thought of the day: really Truth

Speaking the truth is a very difficult task, but when one makes a habit life gets transformed into a beautiful one with a lot of satisfaction and peace. People all around may misunderstand and you can be called a fool or a mad,
But such perceptions by other people hardly matter if one has strong personality traits and enough level of mental concentration.
Hence we should pursue the goal of self-realization with single-minded devotion(SMD). We should therefore try to acquire as much SMD as possible. 


Monday, November 2, 2015

Thought of the day: improved self-management

The big challenges facing me are:

  • keeping  brain and emotion  cool, after observing behaviours of dishonest, greedy and arrogant people at the professional work-place
  • Managing anger is therefore an art, beyond scientific concepts and ideas
  • Channelizing anger into creative actions is a superior art too
  • Leading a simpler life
  • Ignoring the unimportant people at work-place, at any cost, all the time
  • Using single-minded devotion (SMD) most of the time at work-place
  • Not to react to the comments of the mediocre
  • creative action needs a lot of silence in life, so ignoring and avoiding the mediocre is an inevitable part of daily life
  • avoiding confrontation of all kinds,but keeping respect high by being outspoken by the balanced use of  bold and courageous
  • Honest professionals will always have lesser number of friends, as expected
  • Being rough, tough and outspoken are also essential at times, to stop irritating behaviours of the mediocre people all around
  • Keeping busy with my planned actions of the day will relieve me of  tension and worry and misunderstandings
  • Being professional at the work-place is at the root of being happy employee too
  • Management science also teaches us to be 'professional' by using scientific methods 
  • Practical Management also requires a lot of theoretical background

Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Thought of the day: personal happiness


To try to be happy personally ,first:

·        The greatest healer in life is the proper maintenance of Mouna-yoga, that is , maintaining complete physical and mental silence for a long duration of a day
·        To before taking any action, we should take break and do some deep thinking and take a firm decision about ‘to do or not to do’

·        To devote more and more time in self-developmental activities, as one progresses in age

Thought of the day: spiritual living and peace



The best way to survive and win over the material pains of living a life, I could find some way-out ,such as the following:
·         Continuously striving to control mind-monkey as mind-tortoise; it requires daily practice by meditation-like exercises
·         Single-minded devotion (SMD) to one’s own activities  is the best cure for all ills of life
·         Mental concentration only help us realize the truth and philosophy of life
·         A self-realized soul will always keep away from the race for name,fame,wealth, money, pleasure, power etc., as a continual process of attaining higher levels spiritual enlightenment
·         it is best for health and soul to maintain silence as a matter of daily practice, By stopping talking rubbish all the time or most of the time
·         SMD on any action in an isolated condition could revolutionize the whole process, thus resulting into excellence in any field of human activities
·         It is always best to avoid ‘sights-and-sound’ pollution, by deliberate action on one’s own part
·         Principles of management are highly effective in our daily life and these should be learnt and practiced at personal level
·         SMD- based actions will surely produce enormous personal satisfaction at the end of the day
·         Personal honesty is the only prerequisite for getting fine results



Thought of the day: Team spirit & team-building



Team building is an art that usually requires leadership qualities:
·         Good interpersonal skills including effective communication skills
·         Integrity
·         Commitment
·         Ability to motivate and energize human minds and talents
·         Periodical interactions and feedback from the team teams in a participatory environment
·         Ability to stimulate creativity, innovation and experimentation among the team members
·         Continuous training and development on the latest aspects concerning the job-content
·         Ensuring a higher level of Quality of Work-life(QWL)
·         Reward and recognition for the high performers

·         Open-mindedness and extraversion , as needed to keep up the integrity for proper coordination of all the planned and organized activities

Thought of the day: Balance in life & personal happiness



To live a happier life, we should try to follow some of the following principles:
·         Health & fitness should be given highest priority
·         One should develop one’s own spiritual philosophy and practice for attaining mental peace
·         One should discharge his/her one’s duties with utmost sincerity
·         Regular yoga and meditation will relieve one of the mental stress
·         Slowing down the pace of living life
·         Avoiding fast-food
·         Eating green vegetables, fruits and large quantity of water to keep our bodies toxin-free
·         Ensuring good sleep at proper time during the night-time
·         Giving enough time for self-developmental activities , hobbies and entertainment
·         Giving sufficient time to family members
·         Taking time to laugh to reduce stress, by using tasteful sense of humor
·         Taking time to read good books
·         Taking some time to play games and also to listen to songs and music


Wednesday, October 14, 2015

Thought of the day

The best way to survive and win over the material pains of living a life, I could find some way-out ,such as the following:
·       Continuously striving to control mind-monkey as mind-tortoise; it requires daily practice by meditation-like exercises
·     
  Single-minded devotion (SMD) to one’s own activities  is the best cure for all ills of life
·   
    Mental concentration only help us realize the truth and philosophy of life
·     
  A self-realized soul will always keep away from the race for name,fame,wealth, money, pleasure, power etc., as a continual process of attaining higher levels spiritual enlightenment
·       it is best for health and soul to maintain silence as a matter of daily practice, By stopping talking rubbish all the time or most of the time
·      
SMD on any action in an isolated condition could revolutionize the whole process, thus resulting into excellence in any field of human activities
·       
It is always best to avoid ‘sights-and-sound’ pollution, by deliberate action on one’s own part
·      
Principles of management are highly effective in our daily life and these should be learnt and practiced at personal level
·       
SMD- based actions will surely produce enormous personal satisfaction at the end of the day
·       Personal honesty is the only prerequisite for getting fine results



Thought of the day

To try to be happy personally ,first:

·       The greatest healer in life is the proper maintenance of Mouna-yoga, that is , maintaining complete physical and mental silence for a long duration of a day

·       To before taking any action, we should take break and do some deep thinking and take a firm decision about ‘to do or not to do’


·       To devote more and more time in self-developmental activities, as one progresses in age

Thought of the day


To be happy all the time, the following elements of attitudes should be embedded in our brain on a daily basis:
·       Disinterestedness
·       Detachment
·       Devotion
·       The daily thinking process religious ideals at the very personal level, in complete isolation from the outer world


Tuesday, October 13, 2015


Interpersonal skills occupy a prominent place in leadership development process at the professional work-place. It is also the pivotal point for a happy family life. Personal happiness lies only in the internal frame of mind and the spirit of happiness is radiated to the surroundings and creates an ambiance of happiness and peace. Hence the core idea is to learn to be happy at the first place and then the environment will automatically tune to our inner happiness.
To make others happy, one must learn to be happy. The you make happy through applications of your interpersonal skills and relations of mutual trust will finally be your hard-core followers. Through guidance and counseling, we finally win the hearts of the other people and silently follows your principles, ideals, ideas and style.
The basic foundation of building interpersonal skills is:
  • ·        Having a lot of patience and listening skills
  • ·        Natural pleasantness in our unique style of behavior
  • ·        Helping people in need without any consideration of self-interest & expectations
  • ·        Keeping confidentiality & commitment intact
  • ·        Keeping honesty & trust in practice
  • ·        Dedication to our assigned responsibilities
  • ·        Acting with highest level of integrity and transparency in all matters
  • ·        Never to find faults with others, but to perfect our own actions
  • ·        Continuous striving for building an atmosphere of mutual respect and trust



Wednesday, October 7, 2015

Effective Communication Skills


TECHNOLOGY OF PUBLIC SPEAKING & EFFECTIVE PRESENTATION SKILLS( ONE NEEDS ONLY SUFFICIENT SELF-CONFIDENCE, HONESTY & PRACTICE TO EXCEL IN AN AREA OR FIELD OF ACTIVITY)
1.     Objectives of the presentation should be made very clear at the very introductory phase(why to speak and on what , about what, real  contents, purpose, significance, applications) ; presentation might have some of the following purposes:
·       Informational
·       Promotional
·       Inspirational
·       Motivational
·       Generating awareness
·       Conflict resolution
·       Counseling for improvement
·       Delivering expert knowledge
·       Special , situational
·       Marketing some products/ideas/concepts
·       Popularizing some ideas/concepts/products/services
·       Training sessions for skill-development on special domain
·       Thanks-giving
·       Inaugural speech ETC.

TECHNOLOGY FOR AN EFFECTIVE AND POWERFUL PRESENTATION
2.     Know your subject well, deliver with energy and enthusiasm, unique but natural style
3.     Build rapport with the audience, know your audience well
4.     Body language, etiquettes, manners, eye-contacts, loudness, sincerity of purpose, clarity, modulation, articulation, soft and sweet style, focus on the central ideas, managing time, summarization, and salutation, thanks-giving, pleasant and cheerful mood with energy and enthusiasm
5.     Diagrams, illustrations, videos related to the topic  should be presented nicely to generate interest  on the subject
Slides should consists of the following(about20- 30 slides for an hour,DEPENDING ON THE NATURE OF PRESENTATION) :

·       Opening slide/introduction of the topic/title/speaker
·       Contents
·       Introduction to the topics
·       Objectives
·       Main body(slide1 to slide n)(Let it be highly technical in content for audience with Technology background)
·       summarization
·       conclusions
·       question & answer sessions
·       references/bibliography

·       thanks-giving