Being good to others is not being weak

• The problem of being good to others is that we need to be patient and have to tolerate many unpleasant things
• Being good also means being weak on humanitarian considerations
• Being good means 'not being tough' when one needs to be tough
• As we can not be good to everybody, it is better to take tough stand as per the prevailing situations
• We can be bad at times, as there is a limit to tolerance
• In most cases, we should be critics of our own selves, so that we have some scope to improve and progress
• We require to be tough at tough times, as the world becomes  tough and cruel when going gets tough
• Only the tougher ones can survive the hurdles and barriers of social living
• Over-spending is a personal crime, as nobody gives us money for free
• Money is a critical element in life, we should have sufficient control over spending money
• It is better not to donate money to the deserved
• It is better to save money for the hard time ahead
• It is better to network with selected people only, as more people mean more of the problems
• It is better to listen carefully to most people around us to learn more and more