Big Mistakes of my life...

• I tried to acquire knowledge in a large number of subjects...
• I could not focus much on a single special subject...
• I could not pursue one thing for a long time...
• I shifted to many directions and wasted a lot of energy...
• I neglected important issues and did things as per my whims only...
• I could not be harsh with myself on vital issues of career and profession...
• I did not become a careerist in my personal life...
• I had never been a motivated person and a professional...
• I wasted a lot of my hard-earned money...
• I could not save a good amount of money for last 10-15 years...
• I had not been decisive in my personal activities...
• I had been easily convinced by the fools around me...
• I had never been a money-minded person...
• I could not become a hard-core professional in my alternative professional activities...
• I had always been a poor negotiator...
• I used to trust people so easily...
• I could not become tough with tough people...
• I had been soft with people on money matters...

I am now trying seriously about correcting my above-mentioned mistakes and lead a newer life. What really matters is building up of an extraordinary will force and will power to become a stronger person for the rest of my life. I am slowly evolving as a better negotiator in my professional dealings...

Day has come to bring about radical changes and transformation in myself. I am trying to bring about a complete metamorphosis in my inner and outer self...Such secrets will not be shared with the familiar faces, as such interaction will certainly jeopardize my plans. 

All that glitter are not gold...

• modern lives are mostly founded on 'show-offs' and false vanity of so called successful people...
• the greatest ornament of honesty, integrity and transparency is mostly absent in almost all affairs of life...
• people here tend to become quick rich by any means...
• people are addicted to personal their enjoyments at the disregard for the interest of others..
• there is wide spread sound, air, water and machine-based pollution ....
• life is becoming hell every passing day by the evil effects of pollution...
• sound pollution is disturbing personal peace...
• people nowadays have become very jealous, selfish and totally self-centered...
• hence, it is best to be choosy about networking with various people in the society...
• it is also good to be outspoken at times, as people tend to take you for granted...
• hence, we can try to be sweetly outspoken to poisonous people around us...
• nobody is truly your friend, except yourself...
• everybody is your friend, as you can not live alone...
• preach what you preach...

Empty vessels sound much...

• it is a crude fact that empty vessels sound much...
• in practical life, we find that cheats are mostly dominating in ventilating their selfish ideas...
• people who talk too much are basically liars...
• so called experts in the society exert their illegitimate powers on weaker people only...
• the stronger one is, the better is one ,in handling crisis of blatant discrimination and exploitation in various fields of human activities...
• in life, we are all fighters of the Mahabharat characters...
• to a fighter, upholding the self-dignity at any cost is of paramount importance...
• yes, we are all basically fighters of different types...
• we need to fight against all kinds of illnesses, financial insecurities, bad relationships, social and financial exploitation , discrimination and social injustice...
• to a fighter, what really should matter are truth, justice, ethics and spirituality...
• at the same time, we should do our duties well...
• we should keep commitments, if we made naturally or by compulsions...
• we should never be cheap to others...
• we should maintain professionalism...
• we should behave well with one and all...
• we should try hard to ignite creativity in ourselves to create things explored so far...
• create, create and create, and become immortal through your small or big creations in this life...
• it is best to avoid arguments with so called pseudo-intellectuals...
• create an atmosphere of respect, trust and dignity around yourselves...

A smiling face is a great of source of joy...

• we all have our personal problems...
• even, I say to my students that I can write a big 'handbook of personal problems'...
• similar state is true for most of us...
• the winner is he/she who can give a smiling in troubled times...
• we can share our happiness with others, not sorrows. Sharing sorrows reveals our inner weakness to others and hence that could be dangerous at times..
• sorrows, problems, troubles and sickness teach us the lessons nearer to the Truths...
• a life of material happiness is a waste too, as it hardly teaches the secret lessons of living a life...
• we certainly enrich our minds and hearts by learning...
• hence, we should not stop learning...
• bookish knowledge has its own limitations and therefore we must pay our great attention to the more practical aspects of life and living...
• a learned man will always be 'down to earth' in his or her approach, behaviors and attitudes...
• truly speaking, arrogant people are mostly fools, as they are unable to win the hearts of people....
• 'great words win hearts' should be remembered by all of us...
• if one is at fault, one must say 'sorry' to people concerned...
• relationships build up through human considerations and humanistic actions...
• we should use music and songs daily as a great therapy for our mental healing....
• mental sickness finds cure in music, poems, dance, love, laughter and innocent fun....
• to be mentally fit and sound, we should use our brain regularly...
• we should learn to relax our body and mind regularly...

Talk lest, do best things and hence be happy....

• words are both friends and enemies at the same time. So, talk cautiously....
• spoken words cannot be taken back....
• after doing a lot of meaningful work, you will surely be a satisfied man....
• try to do the right thing at the right time...
• doing right thing with wrong person is a national waste. Please remember...
• be aware of the political developments in and around you so that you could reorganize your strategies in tune with the latest situations...
• feel the deepest feelings of human life and absorb finest human emotions so that all your actions do have a humanistic touch...
• accumulate courage and confidence to do bigger things in life...
• at the same time, be ready for bitter criticism from various quarters of the society....
• people ,in general, are daunted by fears of various types...
• overcoming fear is the biggest challenge of human life and existence...
• I personally tried to overcome fears, for last 30 years, but still I could not be successful...
• But, I am certain that only the strong and the fearless could solve majority of the ills of life, society and existence...
• I know that it is really a tough job to be real-life 'Singham'...
• But one can a source of power by remaining honest in all professional and personal matters....
• Ethics matter in life...
• Spirituality in life will certainly inject 'detachment' in one's life and hence will ensure a happier life...
• Hence, try to read spiritual scriptures to enlighten your present thoughts, actions and ideas....
• God blesses us all, but we hardly realize the fact, as we are mostly of weaker faith and trust in divine intention...

Being a good teacher takes a long time...

• teaching is basically an art, though scientific tools such as educational technology can help us elevate the standard...
• it really takes a long time to be an effective teacher...
• most difficult part of being an effective teacher is complexity involved in class room management...
• teaching can be compared to singing a good song...
• teaching should be made as lucid as possible...
• rapport building with the learners is the next challenging task on the part of a teacher...
• the key idea is to make the subject matter interesting to the learners...
• a teacher must totally impartial to one and all among the learners...
• a teacher should always try hard to inspire the students to work with sincerity and dedication...
• a teacher must have great patience, tolerance and managerial & leadership skills...
• a teacher should behave as a senior friend to all his students...
• teaching should be made as student-centric as possible...
• teacher must be selfless and dedicated in the ocean of knowledge...
• teaching is a great world of joy and happiness, if taken seriously...
• a teacher must have a decent sense of humor too...otherwise the teaching-learning process will remain boring and monotonous...
• A teacher basically enjoys the joys of giving...
• 'giving' brings more joy and satisfaction to the life of a teacher...
• it is possible to be a good teacher, if one radically changes his/her attitudes toward teaching, as an art only...
• teaching is hence a professional art that is in great demand in any society...
• a dedicated teacher mostly remains happy, satisfied and hard working with his teaching assignments...

Some special feelings, emotions and incidents that taught me hard facts of life...

• I tend to believe people so easily and for this reason, many people ditched me many times...
• I have lot of money, as people so easily can cheat me....
• Once I shouted to one of my colleagues for some genuine reasons and then found that she started lobbying with powerful people to suppress me and insult me in many ways. I had to say 'sorry' for such petty matters. From that onward, I started avoiding some 'female' colleagues who seem to me to be most selfish and unreliable..... I am never against female professionals. But, in some way or the other, it is dangerous to be connected personally with many of them...
• I trusted one of my so-called friend and said bad things about somebody who is a scoundrel. Then, my friend's betrayal led to threatening me by that scoundrel.
• In this 21st century, I find that some people have hard core caste bias and they behave with low caste with hatred-filled arrogance and dominance...I am really surprised that even the so-called highly educated (Certificate holders) people  are so biased and poisonous....
• It is fact that dirty rich people enjoy greater respect in the society....
• Many people have become money-suckers only...
• Chamcha-giri of the powerful people is the biggest credit of all greedy and hungry people in this society...